If you've never had a child with autism or worked with a child with autism, it might
be difficult to understand what it’s like on a day-to-day basis to live with someone who
has autism. There are many books about just that. Most are from the mother's perspective
and give an account of the child's diagnosis, treatment and long-term prognosis. What makes
The Horse Boy unique in the field of autism literature is the way Rupert Isaacson
approaches his son's autism. Instead of relying on conventional wisdom or hard science and
sticking with the prescribed ABA (Applied Behavioral Analysis), he instead follows his
intuition in an attempt to enter his son's Rowan's world and communicate with him. This
dad's spiritual approach to breaking through his son's autism takes into account his son
as an individual with distinct needs and preferences.
While Isaacson does not strike me as an intensely spiritual person, he is more than
willing to establish the connection with the divine as a way to help his son. Instead of
needing to appear rational and logical to others, he focuses on what is right for his
specific son at any given time. When Isaacson's inner voice tells him to travel to Mongolia
and have his son treated by a group of shamans, he does it. When he feels it important to
bathe his son in the healing waters he does it. As he follows that still small voice in
his head and does what it says, Isaacson begins to see small but significant changes in
his son's behavior.
Woven throughout the narrative, which is read by the author in a distinctly British
accent, is the story of the son's love for animals, and more specifically, horses. Not
only is he affectionate toward them (which is unusual for someone with autism) but they
also seem to have an innate understanding of the boy. Many of these human-animal
interactions in the book support research by Dr. Temple Grandin, author of
Thinking in
Pictures, and an adult with autism who theorizes that the brains of people with
autism sense the world more like animals than neurotypical humans.
The Horse Boy is an unforgettable story which will renew hope and uplift the soul
of parents of children with autism.