An expansion
of her 2013 TED talk of the same name, The Art of Asking
is a raw, bold memoir that should delight established fans,
inspire poorly funded alternative artists, and confound those
unfamiliar with Palmer who were looking for a self-help book
on asking for what they want. Known for her work as one half
of the musical duo, The Dresden Dolls, and for her efforts
organizing a highly successful Kickstarter campaign to raise
funds for a new album, Palmer explores how giving and receiving
factor into her personal and professional life.
On the surface, most of the asking is for money - tips as
a stripper, donations as a street performance artist (The
8-foot Bride), funds for producing an album, and purchases
of her products and concert tickets. Underneath all the asking
for money is the underlying asking for love, acceptance, and
approval implicit in the giving and receiving process. Instead
of finding ways to make people pay for her art, she adjusted
her thinking to "letting" people pay for her art,
which produced a shift in consciousness that took away the
shame and produced big results in her crowd-funding attempts.
Palmer, who sees herself as "first and foremost a musician,"
has come to appreciate art not as a product, but as a relationship.
Fans accepting the music and paying for the music are gifts
to her. Writing/performing music and accepting fans' payments
for the music are gifts to the fans. This exchange of gifts
keeps the relationship alive. She also spends time examining
relationships with friends, family members, former boyfriends,
her husband (author Neil Gaiman), and occasionally her detractors.
Some of Palmer's punk cabaret songs, which are recorded much
louder than the narration, are included sporadically throughout
this audiobook. In addition to the loud music, volume levels
fluctuate as Palmer shouts, speaks normally, and whispers
during her narration. This inconsistency requires frequent
volume adjustments to the CD player - quite inconvenient when
listening to this audiobook while driving a car.
Although primarily a memoir highlighting the author's experiences,
perceptions, and beliefs, her story may contain enough universal
truths to connect with those outside her fan base.
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Reviewer
Leslie C. Halpern is the author of Passionate About Their
Work: 151 Celebrities, Artists, and Experts on Creativity,
Rub, Scrub, Clean the Tub: Funny Children's Poems About
Self-Image, and Shakes, Cakes, Frosted Flakes: Funny
Children's Poems About Table Manners. |