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Confronting
Your Fears
by
Donald Trump
Author of Think Like a Champion: An
Informal Education in Business and Life
Published by Vanguard Press; April 14, 2009
Copyright © 2009 Think Like a Champion: An
Informal Education In Business and Life
Submitted to MyShelf.Com
June 2009
Recently, an interviewer asked me what my greatest fears
were. I said I didn't have any. He seemed surprised, but this is how I
see it: If you label something as a fear, then it creates fear when sometimes
it's not a fear but a concern. For example, I know just as well as everyone
else that New York City experienced a major terrorist attack and the thought
of that is a concern for all of us, because it affects all of us. It's
happened in many places, so it's a worldwide concern. But if we let it
become a firmly rooted fear, the terrorists will have won.
The same applies to business. Do you fear owning a business? Translate
that for yourself as asking: Are you concerned about owning a business
yourself ? Why? What specifically are those concerns? It's much easier
to break down a concern than it is a fear. Fear creates a block that will
only hinder your creative thinking. Objectivity will remove that block
and allow for creative ideas to flow.
An antidote to fear is as simple as problem solving. Whether you have
investing, estate planning, or running a business on your mind, or all
of those things, they can be broken down into units of thought and dealt
with in an orderly manner. It's a bit like a jigsaw puzzle -- you need
to find the right place for each piece of the puzzle until the whole is
apparent.
When I began to construct Trump Tower, for example, I had several things
in mind that I knew I wanted. I wanted a certain kind of marble called
Breccia Perniche, which was expensive, beautiful, and rare. It was also
irregular and had white spots and white veins, which bothered me, so I
went to the quarry itself and marked off the best slabs with black tape.
Action turned this concern into a problem solved. I got exactly the marble
pieces I wanted, and sitting around worrying about whether those pieces
would be right or wrong was getting me nowhere. As a result of deciding
to go to the quarry myself, the pieces of this puzzle fell into place
and the finished product was perfect.
Know that if you want to own your own business, you will be doing a lot
of the work yourself. That's just the way it is. It isn't all about giving
orders or having other people do the legwork or brainwork for you. That
comes into the picture, but you should always be ready to go at it yourself.
If that idea bothers you, maybe you'd be better off being an employee.
If responsibility comes naturally to you, or if you enjoy that challenge,
owning your own business is a good fit.
Fear has a way of making things bigger than they are. There's an old German
proverb to the effect that "fear makes the wolf bigger than he is," and
that is true. But the opposite of fear is faith, which is one reason you've
got to believe in yourself and see yourself as victorious. You will know
you are capable of dealing with any discouragements, bullies, or problems
along the way.
When I was faced with some huge debts in the early 1990s, it was widely
reported that I was finished, done for, gone. Looking at the numbers alone
made that seem clear to the media. However, I never believed I was finished.
I simply saw that situation as a problem I had to solve and went about
doing that. I'm not saying it was easy, because it wasn't. It was a big
problem. But I refused to give in to fear or to believe what was being
said about my so-called demise. I came back to become more successful
than I ever was, and that's why I believe business is very much about
problem solving. If you can learn to deal with and solve problems, you
will have a much bigger margin for success.
Do not allow fear to settle into place in any part of your life. It is
a defeating attitude and a negative emotion. Recognize and zap it immediately.
Replace it with a problem-solving attitude, faith in yourself, and hard
work. Put that formula into working order for yourself and you'll be dealing
from a position of power, not fear. That's winning.
The above is an excerpt from the book Think Like a Champion: An Informal
Education In Business and Life by Donald
J. Trump. The above excerpt is a digitally scanned reproduction
of text from print. Although this excerpt has been proofread, occasional
errors may appear due to the scanning process. Please refer to the finished
book for accuracy.
Copyright © 2009 Donald J. Trump, author
of Think Like a Champion: An Informal Education
In Business and Life
Author Bio
Donald
J. Trump, author of Think Like a Champion:
An Informal Education In Business and Life,
is the very definition of the American success story, continually setting
standards of excellence while expanding his passionate interests in
real estate, gaming, sports, and entertainment, which include runaway
hits The Apprentice and The Celebrity Apprentice.
He is one of the most recognizable and credible "brands" in the world.
Trump is the Number One New York Times bestselling author of
The Art of the Deal, Surviving at the Top, The
Art of the Comeback, and How to Get Rich, as well as other
books that have changed and enhanced the lives of millions of people.
An ardent philanthropist for many years, Trump is involved with numerous
civic and charitable organizations, and has always felt that giving
back adds a sense of perspective and substance to anyone's life.
For more information, please visit www.trump.com
Product
Details
* Hardcover: 288 pages
* Publisher: Vanguard Press (April 14, 2009)
* Language: English
* ISBN-10: 1593155301
* ISBN-13: 978-1593155308
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