The Ten-Minute Marriage Principle
Quick, Daily Steps for Refreshing Your Relationship
by Douglas Weiss, PhD
The author of The Ten-Minute Marriage Principle clearly has an affinity for the number ten. Weiss,
executive director of a counseling center, provides a menu of ten intimacy exercises (grateful statements, love
letters, memory lane, etc.) to be performed during daily ten-minute sessions with your spouse. He offers
suggestions for how to have ten-minute arguments that won’t cause emotional injury or days of strain on the
relationship. He even gives instructions on putting together a ten-minute team of experts who can help during
times of crisis. Mostly, however, he relies on the Ten Commandments, as The Ten-Minute Marriage
Principle is a self-help guide to physical and emotional intimacy from a distinctly Christian perspective.
Filling the book with examples from his counseling practice and his own life, Weiss offers sound suggestions
including worksheets for planning date nights, outlining ten-minute arguments, and structuring the "government"
of your marriage. Especially helpful are chapters devoted to the externally motivated mate and the internally
motivated mate, opposite personality types which usually manage to find each other and marry. The final two
chapters discuss the most heated subjects of marital debate: money and sex.
Easy-to-read and simple to implement (if both parties want to improve the marriage and commit to daily
practice), the sound psychological ideas in this book could help refresh most marital relationships. It’s the
religious ideas, however, which might lose some readers. He writes in the first chapter: "God answered my prayer
and gave me the great tool of the Ten-Minute Marriage Principle." Although the book jacket gives no indication
of so much content revolving around Christianity, the church, God, and prayer, readers should be forewarned that
religious beliefs inspire all of Weiss’s ideas about marriage and are woven throughout each chapter. |
The Book |
Faith Words / Hachette Book Group |
November 2007 |
Paperback |
978-0-446-69810-8 |
Self Help |
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The Reviewer |
Leslie Halpern |
Reviewed 2008 |
NOTE: Reviewer Leslie
Halpern is the author of Reel Romance. The Lovers' Guide to the 100 Best Date Movies
and Dreams on Film. Coming Soon: A Writer's Guide to Fearless Interviews. |
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