The generation who proclaimed we should never trust anyone over forty is now joining AARP,
taking a serious interest in retirement villages, and some are even drawing social security.
We can fight the wrinkles, the gray hair, and even the dowdy wardrobe; but is aging the same
sensible-shoe prospect now that it was for our parents and grandparents?
The contributors to Audacious Aging certainly don’t paint the second halves of their
lives as a fading away or going gently. Of course, much depends upon the definition of 'aging'
and 'audacious.' The chronology can’t be challenged, but it seems almost every other aspect of
life after 50 is up for grabs. The definitions and approaches to the subject are as varied as
the contributors, with topics running the gamut from spirituality to science. There are even
some thought-provoking entries by youngsters in their thirties and forties.
Many of the celebrities—Dominick Dunne, Nikki Giovanni, Dick Van Dyke, among
others—write about themselves and are, without exception, as busy and fulfilled now as
ever. Asha Clinton declares "...authentic, courageous, and audacious aging comes from
authentic, courageous, and audacious living." Gene Cohen’s essay includes the optimistic
suggestion that our brains "become better integrated during middle age, making way for greater
creativity," and he offers tips for using rather than losing those newly balanced brains to
best advantage.
Given free rein to address the subject from any angle, it was inevitable that some few
would wander off on a tangent. (Lori Grace rants about electoral improprieties, for instance)
or zero in on their own self-centered universes (Helen Gurley-Brown rambles on about the
minutiae of her daily life). Despite diversity in the approach, there is not much
fundamental difference in the authors of these essays; with fewer than a half dozen exceptions,
the contributors are U.S. born, so there’s little variety in the cultural perception of aging.
Leaving aside those minor complaints, though, Audacious Aging is an upbeat,
eye-opening, and often enlightening read. Loaded with tips, anecdotes, scientific discoveries,
and even some plain old common sense, this book can point readers in new directions, provide
inspiration for the journey, or just become a pleasant visit with others who’ve been down the
road.